Technique vs. Mindset: A Lethal Chop by a Seasoned Black Belt
I recently acquired a copy of Mike Dillard and Mark Weiser’s Black Belt Recruiting Course and have learned a lot of things that are drastically improving my business… so many that I couldn’t share them all here if I wanted to. I do however, want to share one simple idea that Mark Weiser pointed out about having the right mindset in network marketing.
I often read and hear about the debate on whether it is a person’s mindset or their skills and techniques that make the biggest difference in their success in network marketing.
On one hand you have the airy fairy motivators that say all you have to do to attain a result is think about it enough and it will materialize. On the other hand, you have the drill sergeants that give you checklist and scripts of not only what to do and say, but how to say it.
Which of the two works better?
I’m not really sure I can answer that… but why settle for one or the other when you can have both?
Mark gave the example of the athletes at the Olympics, but you can find similar examples pretty much anywhere you look.
Let’s use golf as an example.
You’ll find that there are lots of different types of swings, but that it’s not necessarily the technically sound swing that generates the low score on the course. There are probably a lot of people that can swing the club just like Tiger Woods, but few, if any, can even come close to beating him.
Why on earth is that? Shouldn’t two similar swings produce similar results? In network marketing terms, if you do what millionaires do, shouldn’t you be a millionaire?
Well, as Mark put it, it is not just about technique. It’s about technique applied with the proper mindset. Tiger has a great swing, but he also has the confident mindset to maximize its application. Millionaire network marketers have great skills, but even more importantly, they have above average mindsets.
So that’s the straight answer. But that may not be helpful for a lot of you that are reading this.
How exactly does one go about developing the skills, and even more importantly, the proper mindset?
In one word… practice.
Do something, evaluate how it worked, and then do it again.
I’m sure Tiger’s swing didn’t just happen. I’m sure it was a long process of honing and improving it until he got it just the way he wanted it. Then he committed it to muscle memory by practicing it over and over and over again.
Constantly be learning about the industry and the skill sets that you are trying to develop. As you learn new things, implement them and repeat them over and over, and they will become easy. Just focus on one thing at a time though… otherwise you may get overwhelmed or discouraged and quit practicing.
Which brings us to our next subject… developing mindset.
Just by continually researching and studying successful people and the techniques they used to achieve it will be a great starting place to developing the proper mindset. The more you learn, the fewer people there will be that know more than you. That alone will give you confidence and improve your self concept.
Another way is to make sure to always be feeding your mind good information. If you are constantly dwelling on what isn’t working, you are going to have a freaking hard time creating a positive mindset. You might want to get a copy of The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino, and read it through to the end… all ten scrolls, each one for thirty days.
But developing the proper mindset is only 33% mental. The other 67% is physical and spiritual. It’s really a function of how you feel about yourself, and you can’t feel 100% unless you are well balanced. So make sure you are spiritually and physically where you want to be as well.
Isn’t it amazing how almost everything in this industry comes back to personal development and mindset? Makes you think that all that hullabaloo about thoughts being things might actually be true.
I can’t remember exactly where I heard this first, but I know it was Timothy Gallway that said it.
“When we plant a rose seed in the Earth, we notice it is small, but we do not criticize it as ‘rootless and stemless’. We treat it as a seed, giving it the water and nourishment required of a seed.
When it first shoots up out of the Earth, we don’t condemn it as immature and underdeveloped; we do not criticize the buds for not being open when they appear. We stand in wonder at the process taking place, and give the plant the care it needs at each stage of its development.
The rose is a rose from the time it is a seed to the time it dies. Within it, at all times, it contains its whole potential. It seems to be constantly in the process of change. Yet at each state, at each moment, it is perfectly all right as it is.
A flower is not better when it blooms than when it is merely a bud; at each stage it is the same thing… a flower in the process of expressing its potential.”
Wherever you are at developmentally, don’t compare yourself to other “roses” that have already bloomed. They were probably planted before you were.
Just stand back and appreciate where you have come from and where you are headed. Keep looking for and gathering nutrients that you need to continue growing and before you know it, you will be the attractive rose that draws people to it effortlessly.
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We really had a VERY fun summer. Besides pounding the pavement every day, we went to Six Flags Elitch Gardens, a Denver Bronco’s game, and a Colorado Rockies game. Only problem was, I came home with a seriously emaciated bank account.












